What to Wear on a First Date: Style Tips, Outfit Ideas & Your Perfect Fit with Tellar
Author: Stylist and brand team at Tellar
Date: 2025
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A first date is a moment to shine. Your outfit should help you feel confident, reflect your style, and suit the occasion—whether it's a casual coffee, an evening dinner, or something more active. Here's a comprehensive, no-fluff guide to dressing your best, then how Tellar makes sure it fits perfectly.
1. Dress for the Occasion
Casual Meet‑Ups (coffee, daytime strolls):
Aim for a smart-casual look with relaxed but polished pieces—think straight-leg jeans, a neat blouse, or a crisp casual shirt and chinos.
Evening/Dinner Dates:
Elevate your style. Midi dresses or sleek trousers with a blazer work well. For men, dark denim or tailored trousers with an Oxford shirt and optional blazer is a go-to.
Outdoor/Active Dates:
Focus on comfort without compromising hygiene. Choose activewear that looks put-together—leggings or stretch joggers paired with fitted tees or lightweight shirts.
2. Universal Styling Advice
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Keep it true to your style: Your outfit should reflect you. Avoid looks that feel forced.
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Fit is everything: Well-fitting clothes look effortlessly polished. A small adjustment can transform your look.
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Comfort equals confidence: Pick fabrics and cuts you're at ease in—avoid anything you’ll fidget with.
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Pick a focal point: If you're rocking bold shoes or a vibrant top, keep the rest subdued to balance the outfit.
3. Specific Outfit Inspirations
Occasion |
Women |
Men |
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Casual Coffee Date |
Straight-leg jeans + tucked-in blouse + loafers |
Slim chinos + casual shirt or crew jumper + desert boots |
Evening/Dinner |
Midi wrap dress + stylish booties or mules |
Dark denim/trousers + Oxford shirt/knit polo + blazer |
Active/Outdoor |
High-rise leggings + cropped top + lightweight overshirt |
Stretch joggers + fitted tee + utility jacket |
4. Grooming & Details Matter
Add finishing touches: polished shoes, pressed clothes, and subtle fragrance. For ladies, light makeup and minimal accessories add polish. For men, neat grooming—whether it’s a tidy beard or a fresh shave—makes a strong statement.
5. What to Avoid
Steer clear of:
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Shoes you can't walk in
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Loud logos or overly distracting patterns
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Overly revealing or excessively tight clothes
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Anything new or untested—your first date isn't the time for a style experiment
6. Make Sure It Fits – Try Tellar’s Fit Tool
No more size-guessing! Tellar’s free sizing tool shows you what size works best across hundreds of brands based on your measurements or known sizes.
How Tellar works:
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Enter your body measurements (or select your known size in a brand).
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Choose from over 1,500 brand-specific size charts.
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Instantly get your perfect size recommendation in seconds.
It works across gendered lines, UK/EU/US systems, and hundreds of iconic brands.
7. Styling & Fit Resources on Tellar
Explore these live styling deep dives and sizing guides:
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Find out if Reiss runs small: Tellar’s Reiss sizing guide
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See how COS sizes compare internationally: Why COS sizes feel inconsistent—and how to get your fit right
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Perfecting Zara fits for men: Zara men sizing guide
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Tips for elegant evening wear: Smart casual dress code decoded: men & women
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Best petite-friendly brands: The best brands for petite women
8. Ready for Your Perfect Date Outfit?
Confidence + fit + the right vibe = your best first-date look. No guesswork needed—Tellar helps ensure your outfit not only looks great but fits flawlessly.
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Dress like yourself, only sharper—and let Tellar take care of the rest.